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THE MIDLIFE DRIFT ASSESSMENT™

In 3 minutes, you’ll see exactly where you’re drifting - and what it’s costing you.

How often does business dominate your thoughts when you're supposed to be present (dinner, weekends, family time)?

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Rarely - I can fully disconnect

Occasionally - maybe once or twice a week

Often - it's in the back of my mind most of the time

Almost always - I struggle to turn it off

Constantly - even when I try to be present, business takes over

You wake up at 3am. What's actually running through your mind?

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I don't wake up at 3am

Random thoughts, nothing specific

Sometimes business, but I can usually get back to sleep

Client problems, cashflow, or team issues

Everything - business, worst-case scenarios, how to fix problems

You've had 2 bad revenue months in a row. Month 3 is starting slow. It's Saturday morning, and your wife suggests a family day out. You:

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Jump at it - sounds perfect

Go but check your phone occasionally

Go but your mind is on the business the whole time

Say you can't - you need to work on fixing the revenue problem

Snap at her - doesn't she see you're under pressure right now?

And which best describes your current work situation?

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Business Owner ($3M+ annual revenue)

Business Owner ($1M-$3M annual revenue)

Business Owner (Under $1M annual revenue)

Exec/Management with team

Employee - other

You just had your best revenue month ever. Two weeks later, you have your worst month in 6 months. How do you feel?

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Disappointed but steady - one bad month doesn't define me

Frustrated but I can manage it

Stressed and second-guessing recent decisions

Questioning everything - maybe I'm not as good as I thought

Skeptical - feels like I'm failing

You just closed your biggest deal ever. That night at dinner, your wife says 'We should celebrate!' You:

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Agree immediately - crack a bottle, enjoy the moment

Celebrate briefly but already thinking about how you're going to deliver it

Feel good for an hour then mind shifts to other business challenges

Downplay it - "Yeah but we still have X, Y, Z to deal with"

Can't enjoy it - already worried about maintaining this level

It's 9pm. Tough day - a key client threatened to leave. Your wife wants to talk about her day and something that's bothering her. You:

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Put everything aside and listen fully

Listen but keep checking your phone

Half-listen - your mind is on the client situation

Cut her off - "Can we talk about this tomorrow?"

Snap at her - "I've got bigger problems right now"

It's 7pm on a Tuesday. You had a tough day - your best sales guy just resigned. You ask your kids to clean their teeth. They start running around being silly. You respond by:

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Laugh and be silly with them - they lighten your mood

Gently redirect them but stay calm

Feel irritated but keep it together - "Guys, come on, not now"

Raise your voice - "I said clean your teeth NOW"

Snap at them and feel guilty about it when things calm down

When business is facing challenges (flat revenue, staff issues, client problems), how do you typically make big decisions?

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Objectively analyze and decide based on opportunity

More cautious but still willing to invest strategically

Hesitate longer than usual - second-guess myself

Play it safe - protect what I have

Freeze or avoid - too much risk when things aren't solid

It's 6am Monday. You have a big client meeting at 9am you're not fully prepared for. Your alarm goes off for your usual gym session. You:

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Get up and train - it helps you perform better in the meeting

Train for 30 minutes instead of your usual hour

Skip it this time - need to prep for the meeting

Hit snooze - you're too stressed/tired to train

Haven't been to the gym in weeks - business always takes priority

You're at a mates BBQ. Someone you haven't seen in a while asks 'How's everything going?' You:

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Talk about family, health, life in general

Mix of personal stuff and mention the business briefly

Mostly talk about the business

Launch into business challenges and wins

Can't help but unload about business stress

What matters most to you right now?

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Being fully present with my wife and kids

Feeling excited about the business again (not just grinding)

Having consistent energy (not exhausted all the time)

Taking time off without feeling guilty

Stopping the constant stress and 3am wake-ups

Anything else I need to know before generating your report?

This gives me context to better understand your current position. *

What's your first name by the way?

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Want help turning your Drift Score into a game plan?

Nothing formal - just a real chat to get clarity. *

Yes. That'd be helpful.

No, I'd rather figure it out on my own for now.

Thanks, where should I send your DRIFT SCORE to?

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And what’s the best number to send your full Drift Score + a few tools to help you fix what’s not working?

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